From the book (A Community of Readers), I got an interesting topic for my blog-----‘ideal relationship between a couple’.
Firstly, I want to definite “ideal”. What is “ideal”? In a word, perfect. As we all know, there are no perfect things in the world, just like no pure extract can be found naturally. So when we talk about “ideal” or “perfect”, we have to visualize and imagine. Meanwhile, the content of the “ideal” differs individually. So in this blog, I want to talk about what kind of relationship between a couple is ideal for me.
From the title, maybe you have already got some clues. Indeed, as you guessed, I am inclined to spiritual romance. For me, the relationship between a couple should be as slight as air. Maybe it is a bit of weird to use such a metaphor. Let me elaborate it.
My life journey is an exploration. Aim to find a right person, I am struggling in dark and waiting for the dawn coming. I am always imaging romantic scenes which seem far away from my real life but I enjoy that kind of fantastic thinking. For example, when I see two lovers walking arm in arm in front of me, I would imagine what if I were the girl. Furthermore, I always share that kind of fantastic imagination with my friends. They all said that I was mad and too crazy about romance.
But actually I am passive towards romance since I am a big beauty who is not pretty but fat. I am so self-conscious that I am always feeling that boys are not willing to approach me even cast a glance to me. So if I fall in love with someone, I hope the romance can be as light as air, “0 burden”. I don't want him to worry about me. I will forgive him even he forgets me. But once we are in trouble, the first thing coming into mind is the promise given by each party------I will come to back to you when I am needed. This promise seems weightless and not practical, but for me, I will spend my whole life in keeping my promise. Similarly, I hope my other part could also do so.
I don’t care how long we can stay together, what I care most is that I have ever experienced it. I don't long for seeing you every second, what I value most is that when I turn back for help he can always be there. I don’t ask for a luxurious wedding, what I need is your promise to take care of me.
Everything between us is like air. As light as air, we don't burden each other, knowing when to set the other party free. As heavy as air, we keep promise forever until we can live without air.
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I think that this article is rather moving. I was moved by your words. A promise which is as slight as air. I think these were your true feelings. Moreover, what is more important is that you are conscious about yourself. To be honest, when I saw you for the first time, I also did not want to approach you for your appearance. But when I knew you more, I recognized that I was somehow superfacial like most of the boys. What is more important is one's spirit. Since you has much inside, I think you will find your romantic soon.
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