Recently we have talked much about love and marriage. We have discussed a lot on this issue. Now I want to show some of my opinions on love and marriage.
When I was young, I didn’t think much about this kind of question because it was regarded as a taboo among children. My conception came from the TV and films, in which the hero is so handsome and great while the heroine is so beautiful and kind and they always love each other deeply and love each other all the life time. So I always thought that love is so wonderful and touching. I made up my mind to be a very responsible man and will only love one girl in my whole life.
Later when I grew older, I know more about love and marriage. I know that the love in the TV or films is almost impossible in the real life. There won’t be so perfect people in the real life. There are always some shortcomings in people. So we have to learn to be more tolerant or otherwise we can’t truly love each other and keep the marriage for a life long time. There are some of my friends having their boyfriends or girlfriends, I don’t know whether it is too early or not, I only wish them could love each other for a life long time.
Though now I am more realistic but I still have a ideal image that I wish my wife could be. I wish her to be a tender and gentle girl not necessary to be very beautiful. I wish her to be considerate and not always demanding. I wish her to be a optimistic girl. I wish when I thought of her face, no matter how exhausted I was at that time I could be energetic. I wish we could stay together no matter what happened. I wish I could meet her and love her for my life long time.
That is my ideal image of a wife. I know it is difficult to find such a wife, but I wish I could have one. I will love her for my whole life. I will be responsible to her, I will protect her, I will try my best to make her happy every day, I will give her my whole heart.
As to the deeper meaning of marriage, I didn’t think much about it. I only think that to be married is the human natural and we want to find a spouse to love, to live with for the whole life. I only think that we need to form a family in which we help each other, support each other, trust each other, and love each other for the life long time.
That’s my opinion of love and marriage.
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You`re a romantic at heart,Kangli. When the right girl comes along, you`ll know. Whoever is going to be your wife is really a lucky girl because you are such a nice guy. You deserve the best!
ReplyDeleteIsn't that rather pessimistic --> ' I know that the love in the TV or films is almost impossible in the real life'?
ReplyDeleteI have a good friend who told me he's looking for that perfect woman because he does not want to have to consider the divorce option. He told me that 7 years ago - now? He's still single =)
I guess what matters is love. Love is not just lovey-dovey, but also about making compromises, and lots and lots of understanding. You may have THE perfect woman/man, but if you don't work at it, the relationship will never work out. Right?
Wow, amazing. I am shocked by the numerous promises you have made in your post(I will love her for my whole life. I will be responsible to her, I will protect her, I will try my best to make her happy every day, I will give her my whole heart.). The promises imply your responsibility. I am admired by your courage. Since we are living in such a rapidly changeable society, nothing is impossible and nothing is absolute. For me, I don't dare to promise easily even to my loved ones because I don't know whether I will be available when I am needed. In fact, I am afraid that I will be eaten up by the guilty of breaking my promise. That is the reason why I don't promise easily. But I do admire your guts. And I also believe that you will be responsible to your promises.
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