love and marriage

This week we have learned love and marriage. I have learned a lot when I think a lot about it and talked with classmates and tutors.

In my point of view, love and marriage must be cause and effect. Males and Femals must fall in love with each other, then they get married. However, in ancient time, the marriages are processed by the parents. Parents determine who their children marry to. These marriages tend to lead to tragedies, like divorce and family violence. Before marriage, the couple should trust and love each other. The couple should support each other and get through the difficulties together. In a sense, the couple is a whole which shares happiness and sadness. However, we can see many divorce cases and even ridiculous pre-nuptial agreement. How can they divorce without responsibility and leave alone the feeling of their children. Once they get married, they both have responsibility which can not be given up even by divorcing. It’s really ridiculous that they can get married with the pre-nuptial agreement representing their untrusting each other. From this, we can see that many couples get married with the prepration of divorce.

Can the marriage be more serious and trustful? If we be serious with the marriage and trust the lovers, we can get happy marriage.