A boy in China I miss a lot (2)
I have received many comments since I posted my first blog about the boy who I miss a lot. Thank you very much! And I think I should continue to share my story with you.
Just a week before my leaving for Singapore, I made a phone call to one of my friends in shanghai. He promised me that he would call the boy after I arrived at Singapore. I just wanted the boy to know that I enjoyed taking the same bus with him.
However, my friend didn’t keep his words. I received a phone call from a stranger. I didn’t answer it. Afterwards, I sent him a message to ask who he was. He told me that he was the very boy who I never talked to. I was shocked at that time. Later, we shared a lot of good memories about our school life. I was surprised to find that he almost remembered all that I did. He always wondered what kind of girl I was at that time.
I had a good talk with him by sending messages during my stay in Beijing before landing on the plane. But we didn’t talk anything about love. He might know that I had a spot for him. But he avoided mentioning that to me.
I agreed that it was good for both of us for it was still too early to know the future. When he asked when I could come back to shanghai. I just told him honestly that I didn’t know. I couldn’t give him any promise about the time I would come back to China. I want to achieve my dreams of being a good businesswoman. I can’t and I won’t give up all my efforts to strive for my dreams. Maybe a few years later, I will have a good career in a foreign country. And I am sure that he will just stay in Shanghai.
I have learnt from my friend that he is an introverted person. I found that he almost didn’t speak to any other students, especially girls, except his best friend during the school days. I could feel that sometimes he even didn’t know what to say to me. It was not because he didn’t want to say something, but because he didn’t know how to say something. I was happy to learn that our conversations were his longest talks with a girl. I appreciated it that he didn’t say anything unfriendly to me before my leaving.
Four days ago I sent a message to him after losing touch nearly two months. He replied soon. We talked to each other on the QQ. We all told each other that we wanted to focus more on our studies. We treated each other just like normal friends.
I think he is one of my good friends now. And I won’t consider anything else expect my study for I don’t know how my future will be. One thing is for sure, I will have a promising future. What I can do for him is to send him my best wishes.
He is studying in the Heilongjiang province which is in the northern China. And I am studying in Singapore which is near the equator. The distance is rather great. This experience will certainly be my nicest memory in my life. I hope our friendship can last forever.
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Well,it`s good that you`ve made contact. You`re being very sensible to say that you two should concentrate on your work first. You have a promising future ahead of you.And my advice is that you should not confine yourself to just a few friends.As you mature,your perception of people will probably change.
ReplyDeleteBobo, you even write such a long composition apart from talking about him every day in our dormitory! Though he never talks with you about love, it is obvious that he wants to make friends with you and doesn’t want to hurt you. According to his character, he really treats you differently which you should treasure.
ReplyDeleteIt was good that you and him exchanged birthday wishes yesterday. I think what you should do now is to maintain your valuable friendship with him. As for further relationship, don’t worry about it too much, just let it be. Moreover, don’t forget to study hard and care more about your roommates!
Great to hear part 2 of the story =) Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeletePerhaps, when you were in senior high school, you were just felt so lonely that this very boy came into your life and became a part of your good memories. From the description I can tell that the type of this boy's character belongs to "S", just like me who don't dare speak much to girls. But he can talk to you for such a long time. I think he really want to be friends with you. But I think you don't know much about each other now. Maybe one day you will find he is not the kind of person you really like.
ReplyDeleteI think you have the ability to be somebody in the future. So work hard. The fruit of love will be more sweet in the future.